I am so sorry to hear that. I still remember the day that my father’s doctor told me about my Dad’s dementia. It seemed unreal. I suddenly felt overwhelmed.

For some families, though, it is a relief to finally have a diagnosis that explains the odd behavior. With a treatment plan from your doctor and frank discussions with other family members, you can begin the long-term process of caregiving.

Caring for a loved one at home takes dedication because caring for a person with AD is more than a full-time job. It can run 24/7 if you let it.

Fortunately, there are many resources available. Here is a short list of organizations and websites that can help.

1. The Alzheimer’s Association – In addition to the wealth of information on the website, this association also offer a Caregiver Handbook.
2. The Alzheimer’s Foundation – Has a collection of websites to help caregivers, teens, caregiving professionals, even a site on prevention.
3. HelpGuide.org – has lots of very specific advice on caring for a patient with Alzheimer’s and other dementias.
4. NIHSenior Health – The National Institute on Aging has a collection of articles for caring for someone with Alzheimer’s at home.
5. I’d also recommend that you check with your local county Office on Aging (search for “your county” Office on Aging) for information about resources like respite care and adult day care in your area. 

It’s a big job to care for someone with Alzheimer’s. Some might call it a marathon for caregivers.

A recent study indicates that dementia risk is higher for someone caring for a spouse with Alzheimer’s than another friend or relative. Stress seems to be the critical factor here.

To minimize the stress, you will need a team to help you provide care. That includes the doctor, your family and friends, local government and church organizations that offer support and services, and even private care facilities.

You absolutely must take time for yourself. And, don’t neglect nutritious eating and sleep. Share your worries with a close friend or religious adviser. You can provide the best care if you are in good physical and mental health.

Get help early and often. Don’t cling to heroic notions that you are the only one who can provide care. Others can provide care that is good enough for that moment. 

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